The Dom

Lazy Sunday afternoon.  I'm doing nothing in particular but browsing on the dating web site for someone interesting, when I came across a really cute 23 year old guy.  He explained in his profile that he was a "dom" but no other description of said activities or preferences.  In his only pic, he was wearing sunglasses that barely covered up his baby face.  A friend told me she could tell that the pic was taken at Disneyland.  Sexy!  On the mobile app there's a feature that allows you to contact someone and tell them you are interested in something immediate, so that's what I did.  What else did I have to do that day?  Who else did I have to do that day? 

He was interested and we agreed he'd be here in an hour.  He said he had a family function that afternoon so it would be quick.  Fine by me.  The thing was, he was late because of "traffic" or something so this cut into our time together.  He arrived looking completely adorable in shorts, t-shirt, flip-flops, hat on backwards, and those damn sunglasses.  

I knew right away this was going to be quick by his hurried demeanor.  We headed straight for the bedroom where it basically turned into a blow job for him.  So far I had not observed any dominant behavior of any kind, so I left it alone.  I guess he probably thought he was being bossy when he ordered me to my knees so he could cum on me.

He left and I never heard back until about a month later when he sent me a message on the site.  I said something about how I still wasn't convinced that he was a dom and asked what he meant by that.  Well, I got my answer in a very long message describing his encounter with another woman in which he completely degraded her.  I'm talking disgusting stuff involving pee and poo and making her crawl on the floor, etc.  I won't even go into all of it, but it was clear to me that this kid had issues.  It was made even clearer when I read his updated profile in where he described being recently out of a relationship in which he was cheated on. 

Hmmm.

So after receiving that description, I had to clear up a few things for him by sending him a long list of things I will and will not do, the will-nots mostly being everything he did to that other girl.  I then proceeded to inform him that being a dom does not mean degrading women; it's actually more of a mental thing than anything else. 

He never messaged me back and I'm completely ok with the fact that he's probably out there trying to convince unsuspecting younger women that he's dominant when in fact he's just pissed off at women.