Chemistry!

Yes, a third blog post in the same day, but this one is worth it..  I'm going to call him Mr. Chemistry because that's just what we had.  I messaged him on the dating website because I thought he was cute and he replied right away.  Basically by the third message we were already discussing the logistics of meeting. 

The thing about him is that he's bisexual and his messages were all about how he feels that just because it's "casual sex" doesn't mean it can't be an awesome experience. I've been looking for someone who isn't afraid to just be in the moment and enjoy it, without fear.

He arrived and immediately when I answered the door i knew we'd have fun.  He was absolutely adorable, a little femme, super cute, sweet, and polite. He walked in, put down his bag, took off his shoes, and immediately kissed me.  Yum!  See, kissing is the thing.  It's what lets me know if we're going to click or not.  If you aren't a good kisser or if you don't do it at all, I know the sex isn't going to be great.  I mean anyone can fuck and it's easy to find people for that, but when you feel a certain connection with someone it's so much better.

Again, not in a relationshipy way, just in a we-connect-on-a-sexual-level kind of way.

He was amazing...we discussed a few things ahead of time in the messages and knew that we both had an appreciation for a little bit of pain.  He knew I wanted him to take control and he definitely delivered in both of those areas.  It was just great.

Afterwards, he actually wanted to cuddle, even going to far as to kiss my forehead!  I loved it.  This is what I'm talking about. 

No fear.

Puerto Rico WHO???

He is coming back next week.  Enough said.